The power of mindset
A collection of dialogueS FROM Dr. Peter A. James
Your mindset shapes your reality. As an example, if you constantly focus on the negative, you'll likely find yourself in a world of disappointment and despair. On the other hand, if you cultivate a more positive outlook, you'll likely find yourself more open to opportunities and experiences that bring joy and fulfillment.
This is why it's so important to learn how to shift your mindset. In this blog, we will provide you with strategies, reflections and insights for transforming negative thought patterns and embracing a more optimistic outlook on your life, career and business. Whether you're struggling with being in a rut, frustration, or just feel like you’re going through the motions, these articles can help to see the world in a new light.
Attitude Is Contagious
It's still a new year. But we're a few weeks in. And things may not have unfolded for you quite like you might have wanted them to. So, what do you do? How do you approach the near future? How might you need to shift?
History has shown us that things around us do not evolve in a straight line. Since 1900, we have experienced various wars, over 20 recessions, unprecedented stock market gains, political polarization, significant climate change, and even epidemics (and pandemics).
Still Dreaming.
I don't know about you, but when I was a kid, I would dream about the future. I would dream of fancy cars. I would dream of being a firefighter. I would dream of living in Florida. I would also dream of buying my mother a home or having her to come live with me.
Passion Vs. Purpose
I’ve written much about purpose. And I have mentioned passion quite a bit, as well. But this morning, allow me to pen a controversial MMM which identifies my mixed feelings for one and love of the other. I would love to hear your take also.
Me vs. Us.
As a leadership coach, I am often amazed at how leaders within organizations get sucked into the "go at it alone" frame of mind. For those of you who may not understand this concept, please allow me to explain.
Can we talk about fear?
This past week, I was confronted with a deep-rooted feeling that exists inside of me. I was forced to analyze how/why I felt the way that I did about this topic. And then, identify what this feeling really was and where it came from. This analysis took me to the word "fear."
Let It Go, Again.
Last September, I wrote about the need to Let It Go (please give it a reread if possible). Last week, I wrote about missed opportunities and failures (another solid one). I thought it might be necessary to reiterate these conversations albeit from a different point of view.
Abundance vs. Scarcity: A Mindset Discussion
It seems that every business article that I read lately has a specific recipe for success. And almost all of them tie success back to one’s mindset, of which I have been writing about for much of this year and I even devote a whole website to this word. But even I have to admit that just having the right mindset is only the beginning of the equation. You see, although it is important to shift your mindset, it is even more important to execute (to take action).
Tell me what to do
Since kindergarten, people other than our parents have been telling us what to do. Initially, it was our kindergarten teacher, then our basketball coach, then the bosses at our job, and of course, the government. Now you're an executive in an organization and when faced with something outside of your comfort zone, you state that is not something that you do, or that's not in your job description, or just turn the other way.
Perspective
I traveled to Europe a few weeks ago. I spent some time in the Netherlands and Germany. I love the chance to experience different cultures and different lifestyles other than my own. Unfortunately, the grind of our day-to-day lives forces us to think that we are the center of the universe. When in fact, we are just a small one in a billion.
The Anchor
Two-thousand & nineteen is upon us! And I promise that I won't write a thing about goals, plans, and strategies early in the new year. (Because everyone else will.) But what I would like to talk about are things that are holding you back from true success. I like to call them our anchors.
Slave to our Emotions
Most of what we do on this earth is based on feeling. We retaliate because we feel threatened. We shop because of how it makes us feel. You may have even heard yourself say at one time, “I’m doing it just because I feel like it.”
Calculate, Fail, & Fix
We all have dreams. Not all of us have goals. Some of us are doing a bit more to accomplish all of our dreams. Those individuals are pressing forward in order to take one step closer to those dreams. Each step represents an accomplished goal. Why is it necessary to follow this philosophy? Because there is no such thing as overnight success. Success (no matter how you define it) is a result of stretching yourself toward your goal in order to get one step closer to your dreams.
Is Your Cup Too Full?
Self-awareness allows one to recognize their own opportunities for growth. It also allows us to recognize our deficiencies - areas in which we can improve. But many individuals, including many leaders, are not self-aware. They are not able to recognize or receive constructive criticism or recommendations. And as a result, they remain in a fixed pattern of life - a fixed mindset.
What are you eating?
We put food and drink into our bodies every day. At least three meals a day and various snacks in between may be a part of your daily regimen. But many of us also digest food and drink that we really don’t need. Fast food, soda, alcohol, chips, and fried foods are not our best options. But how many of us can regularly abstain?
You don't have to be the loudest
In life, unfortunately, the loudest and most high-profile individuals often get the most attention. They usually yearn for the spotlight regardless of their intentions. These “need to be heard" individuals exist in all walks of life. The truth is that you do not have to be high-profile to make a mark on this earth. I just want to make an impactful splash. One that helps to make others and their situations better. Being the loudest often detracts from what is truly needed. Making a positive impact resonates more.
Record Breaking
Sports are a great source of inspiration for anyone seeking to achieve success in life, whether it's in personal growth or professional development. The ability of athletes to push beyond their limits and set new records is a testament to the power of the human mind and body. Just when you think a record could never be broken, someone comes along and smashes it, demonstrating that there is always more that can be accomplished. The same is true in life and business. We all have the potential to overcome obstacles, create new methods, innovate products and services, and build things that are truly amazing. The key is to believe in ourselves, desire success, and be willing to make sacrifices to achieve our goals. We can't change the past, but we can will ourselves to future victories by breaking our own records, outstripping our yesterdays with our todays, and doing our work with more force and a finer finish than ever. So let's get out there and break some records!
Afraid to Fail
In this week's Monday Morning Minute, we explore the topic of being afraid to fail. We all experience fear of failure at some point in our lives, but it can be especially paralyzing when it comes to pursuing our dreams and goals. Watch this video to learn some practical tips on how to overcome your fear of failure and take the first steps toward success.
What's below your iceberg?
This article explores how our upbringing, experiences, culture, religion, fears, aspirations, and environments shape who we are and how we behave. Often, we live our lives without pausing to reflect on these influences, which can hinder our success and growth. The solution is partnership with a friend, counselor, or coach to identify and analyze our subconscious beliefs and behaviors. By doing so, we can eliminate negative patterns and allow ourselves to flourish. Don't settle for what you see on the surface; dive deeper and live your best life.
Everyone’s not a Coach
With the proliferation of "coaches" online, it can be challenging to distinguish between those who are genuinely qualified and those who are not. Authentic coaching is a partnership that involves thought-provoking and creative processes that inspire individuals to maximize their personal and professional potential. In this article, we will explore how to find an authentic coach who can help you achieve your goals and dreams.
Coach The Person
In this Coach the Person ” article, we discuss the various roadblocks, hurdles, and obstacles that we encounter in our personal and professional lives. Learn how to overcome these challenges and achieve success through effective coaching strategies.